How do you know your children what is sex?

Treading mothers after their sons and daughters about their teens about what they must speak with them, and what information they should know about puberty, whether for a boy or girl, sex, and the relationship between men and women and so on. As for the girl, of course, there is a long talk about the menstrual cycle and tracked from the recording of her days and other care.

Is often the role of the mother is the most prominent in a girl's life, while the father played an important role in the life of the boy, so the parents must balance the psychological and emotional closeness and build a friendship since childhood to the mother with the boy and the girl, and the father with Monday as well, with a preference for the division of roles in order to prevent embarrassment children and girls in order to entrench the concept of modesty.

The parents must be prepared to advance that stage and read about and see the anticipated changes and how to talk with their children so as not to behave whichever is wrong behavior affects the concepts of the children or their relationship.

Prevention is better than cure

From the beginning you have to take care of the boy and therefore the girl:

1-establish a strong relationship of friendship between you and lets you enable the parent to know the life of the Son, and follow-up and see friends

2-control up to the son or daughter of readings, newspapers, magazines and rebounds on the computer and the Internet, and to encourage children to choose the useful ones.

3-careful not to see movies or videos do not fit old or out of the scenes are not suits him so as not to store in memory.

4-since childhood not to exercise an intimate relationship with your spouse in front of him as soon as the first year exactly, nor Tzna it does not feel small. This does not mean that the exchange of hugs and kisses, of course, is warm in front of the children are making children happy and feel the warmth and love and safety.

5. attention to the physiological changes that occur upon the stage and even Zbqa Tkelmah them.

6-involvement in cultural activities such as libraries public and cultural centers, sports activities Kalnada and youth centers and sports.

The difference between adolescence and adulthood:

Adolescence is approaching maturity of physical, mental, psychological and social, and puberty is the arrival of the adolescent stage to physically sexual function is complete, and the ability to reproduce.

Thus the start of adolescence sometimes before puberty and completed a period of between 8 to 10 years to become a mature person.

Signs of puberty

When the boys

1. becomes more length and width shoulders begin to widen

2. Hair appears under the armpits and in the genital area

3. roughness to his voice show

When girls

1. become more taller but not as much as the boys

2. female form begins on the body and grow breasts, as well as a little thighs and buttocks area

3. Hair appears under the armpits and in the genital area

4. menstrual cycle show

Talking with children

Start talking with children from preschool to emphasize the importance of not touching him or others not revealed to his body in front of a mildly alarming but with careful emphasis on it.

No Tanfah when asked or hold this place but Ibaadi hands, so be careful in the presence of other children.

Urban suitable answers to common questions, such as how the child to enter the belly of Mama? Which is possible to be that God creates the child in the womb after mama marry Baba, for example, and so on.

No Taatherba questions nor Tanfa not Ttgahla questions.

At the end of primary school and the beginning of middle school children about puberty and it becomes incumbent upon the parents answer questions and talk with the boy about puberty has meaning erections and wet dreams and masturbation and the importance of personal hygiene and how to exchange ideas about the mind and how the energy exchange in the sport and others.

It is important to emphasize the importance of small friendship between you always A_i_artk. Vokrr go back to the father is the best for the boy.

The girl must be a modern mother to her about what the menstrual cycle and how and why they occur starting from the secretion of the egg to the arrival of the menstrual cycle in the form of menstrual blood and how pregnancy and what would be his during the menstrual cycle and the importance of attention itself and how the disposal of pain necessary health products happen and so on.

It is useful to read the father and mother about it and explain each of the sons of a detailed scientific explanation. The event was a severe embarrassment which parents should never, it is possible to request that a knowledge of doctors, provided that the person with confidence in your home or with some members of the family of the same age together male and female together, of course. Although it is better not to embarrass the child is exposed to be made you both closest to him.

And the parents explain how sex for boys and girls separately -kl Che's not trying not to explain it false incorrectly and Use books you how to put it. This is important to protect the son or daughter of exposure to any exploitation.